The art of letting go

*I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.
Sometimes it happens, whether we like it or not, people change, even the way they were to us. We can't stop it, nor control it... we can't do anything about it...and we feel helpless, we feel bad.
Why do things have to change? How can we have it back?
The saddest part of it... is sometimes we don't realize that the real him is not the one that we thought he was. The real him is what we see in him now.

*Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.
Loving someone with all your heart, making him your everything... only to realize that in his life you are nothing. He may love you, he may not, he may be yours... but not enough...not enough to make you feel, that in his heart you have a part.
Love is like that... it gives us hope, it teaches us to give, and be hurt. It's never easy to accept that we love someone more than we should that we ended up broken... the moment we realize that everything we offer... means nothing to him.

*If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.
Sometimes for some reason, we get hurt by the people we love... and sometimes no matter how we love this person... there's nothing left to do but say goodbye. It would hurt and it will be better if we will cry... cry it all out. Embrace the pain, and try to understand why it happened. Make yourself believe that there is a reason for everything... even that reason would be... some things are not meant to be.
Gather all the strength that you have to fix yourself, to stand up and face the world again. Life has its own reason. And the only way you will find out is by making another step.

*Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.
There are times in our life when we have to let go of things so that we will have time to think if we are better off with it. Or we just take it for granted. It is also the best way to know our worth with our partners. There are things that no matter how much we love, needs time and space. and there is nothing more to do but wait...